Hello friends! let us see the problems faced by parents in growing their children. What is the role of parents and how we should behave in front of our children to be a role model for them .let us learn about it from the speech of our spiritual leader Sadhguru.

See, parenthood is a very funny thing Nobody has ever known what is the best way to parent their children. Even if you have 12 children, you are still learning You may raise eleven properly, the twelfth one can give you problems., But we want to do your best. what is the best thing we can do? One foremost thing , First thing is to work upon our -self a little bit. Spend sufficient time with yourself. Look at yourself carefully How you are? How you sit? How you stand? How you speak? What you do? What you I think you must look at yourself
very carefully because the children are picking up everything rapidly and they will exaggerate everything
that you are doing. So one foremost thing is, At least make yourself in such a way that you would like to be. Somebody may not approve. You should made yourself in such a way that you like the way you are. At least that much you must do Maybe you cannot raise to somebody else standards. We know what kind of standards they set for you But at least you must become the way you like it – the way you are That is a must But that will only create the necessary ambiance It still doesn’t make you necessarily a good parent, but it creates the necessary ambiance But creating the necessary ambiance is a
large part of parenthood, large part.

If you create the right kind of atmosphere, of a certain sense of joy and love and care and discipline, for yourself and your home atmosphere, generally they grow up. Of course you want to provide opportunities for them. Each one of us can provide opportunities only to the extent it is available to us, Yes? You cannot provide an opportunity for which
you do not have access. You will always do according to your limitations I am sure in that area you will do your best, but the important thing is what kind of human beings or brats you raise? For that, what kind of human being are you is an extremely
important part of raising children.

So if your wife became pregnant, time for transformation for you Because now another life is coming . So, becoming conscious of what we are doing Is
extremely important What should we teach? What we should do? I think one important thing that you should teach your children is That they learn to question everything but not with suspicion With a genuine wanting to know Questioning can become a very sick thing or a very healthy process People question because they already suspect
everything is evil. This is a sickness But the basic purpose of a question – question is an instrument which helps you to dig a little deeper than
where you are, essentially an instrument with which you can dig a little deeper That is the purpose of a question. If you just bring this into your child”s mind, That a child can question anything including you, the way you are if you allow that, in a healthy way, not in a sick way , questioning things because you think something is wrong with everybody If you bring this, the child is constantly exercising his intelligence But one thing is clear His intelligence is active If you anyway put him through the
necessary physical paces to give them a healthy body and an active intelligence, and of course some level of education according to what you can afford , and you bring him up without any sense of identity, without any sense of identity if you can bring him up, if you do not entangle his intelligence by being identified to this or that, that he is willing and open to everything if you bring him up this way, the best possible that he can make out of his life, he will do He may not become like somebody else But he will grow to his maximum potential Of course it depends on along the way
who he meets, what happens, what situations he gets into Whether he comes into a spiritual space or he goes into a war zone – where he ends up who knows Those things you cannot control, but if you create an atmosphere of love, meditativeness, openness, If you bring up a child free of prejudice in a loving,very open atmosphere, generally, they do well, but there is no guarantee Because there are other influences in the society

You may be doing your best Tomorrow morning into whose hands your child will fall, there is no insurance or guarantee That's a risk that you
are taking always But the only thing is – did you do your best or not? Thatis all there is to life

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